How does one maintain peace and love after argument and fight in close relationships?

ohh chhado ji saanu baksh deo
twaddi jaan di, na jaan leyo
m manda h meri galti si
ohh chhad danga jo kl pitti si

tu jaan meri ohh jaaneman
aa pass mere, na kar tu tang
hud hass deyo, gal kar leyo
is kamle je nu, bah vich bhar leyo

English Translation
 
please leave it, and forgive me
don't take life of you life
i agree that it was my mistake
and i promise to not to drink again

you are my life, my lifeline
come close, please don't torture me
now please smile, and talk to me
hold this crazy guy in your arms


I hope by now you must have got my point, In relationships it is very normal to have arguments and small fights, but you will never want to leave the person you love, just because of some misunderstanding or an argument. 

There can be thousands of ways to do it but today i will share the universally working full-proof tip wit you, that will save your relationship. But first we should understand that how we came to this situation, and mostly one of the most prominent reason is ego. Believe me or not but this is truth. Whenever there comes a situation where there is contrast in opinions, at that time we automatically starts explaining why my opinion is better than yours, and why i am correct and why you are not, and this conversation becomes an argument and then a fight. 

In the beginning, if you have kept silence or may be you would have agreed to the opposite person. than may be this situation would never have been occurred. But as you are here, reading this, you must already have messed up the things. 

But you have no need to worry!!!!! Because i am hare to save  the love of your life. and i am sure that if you are reading this, than you relationship is more crucial for you than just a small fight or an argument. The tip which i am about to is give you will not only save your relationship but also give you peace and happiness in your relationship. 

and the tip is:
Say Sorry

Now you must be thinking, "why should i say sorry, it was not even my mistake", But that is the point. It doesn't matter that whose mistake was that. The thing that matters is you love and relationship. as i already mentioned you have come to this point, because both of you were trying to satisfy your ego, and you it is the time to take your ego aside and make your the love of your life smiling. And now when you have decided to say sorry, leaving everything else aside. Now is the part to show some creativity, Because you just not only want to bring the argument to an end but also to add some joy and happiness in your love life.

Here comes some other tips to say that one word more conveniently:

  • You can write a poetry for your love: In Poetry you can write how you feel about your love, importance of that person in your life, tell your love that no argument can ever come between you people. 
  • Write a love letter: This can come as an alternative to poetry. this will suit you if you are not so convenient in writing poetry and also want you covey your real feelings.
  • Give a gift: You can give a gift that the other person may like. So that they can realize their importance in your life.
  • Cook food: In India, it is a saying that way of heart goes through stomach, so cook their favorite food, and serve it in surprise,   if you can do so. or you can take them to dinner, 
  • Sing a song: Sometimes it is hard to find words to say some things. And in those situations some songs fits best.
These were some working and tested tips for you to maintain peace and love after argument and fight in close relationships. In my opinion these small fights ans arguments are important in a relation it makes them more stronger and unbreakable. They also give you a chance to realize the importance of love of your life. And sometimes give one more reason to love again and again with your love. 

I hope these tips will help you and make your love life more special and romantic. if you have to share anything or wanna share some more tips you can write in comments. 

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